Keep it going
Mary Goodwyn
Nov 26, 2008
You’ve seen the images and read the stories. Good people serving turkey and fixings to those who had no Thanksgiving meals. Kids bundling nonperishable goods to make food baskets for people in need. Groups preparing dinners designed for hungry folks. Volunteers with boots and buckets collecting money to cover holiday needs and buy gifts.
People spend hours doing good deeds and offering acts of kindness this time of year. It’s contagious, sometimes therapeutic. But soon, post-holiday, get-back-to-normal life sets in. By the first of the year, the compassionate bubble bursts.
Some of us will be at the point where we turn our heads when we see the “Will work for food” signs. We’ll complain when we hear or see news reports about spiraling unemployment, homelessness and depression. Long lines of jobless scouring for work become sobering reminders that we might be joining these folks in coming days. Yes, it could be you. Could be me.
But I’m an optimist at heart and in spirit. Some people call it faith.
So when the ginger cookies are gone, the pies are a distant memory and holiday leftovers become blessings to the pets, what will you have to inspire people who stood in this month’s feeding lines or who were recipients of the well-stocked food baskets?
Can’t say “Happy Thanksgiving” or “Merry Christmas.”
But you can stop among those folks and ask how they’re doing and wish them well.
And saying “I care” works anywhere, anytime of year. Don’t throw out your caring and compassionate spirit with the tinsel garland and wrapping paper. Decorate someone’s life in March, July and September by giving the gift of love.
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Thank you for this reminder of what the season should be about. I too have falling on hard times and have found myself at times engulfed in worrying about health, finances and the future. But there have been so much goodness lately, I am forever optimistic. My family and I have been the recipient of so many acts of kindness lately, we cannot keep track. This Christmas was to be a very slim Christmas in the way of presents for our children. Yet, without saying anything to close friends and family, we have had friends show up at our door with gifts for our little 5 and 3 year olds. God DOES answer our prayers and it confirms to me that He is still there for all of us. These acts of service have not brought me down but made me stronger through renewed faith in my brothers and sisters. I know it is easy to forget the Christmas feeling when the new year arrives and the credit card bills start to pile up, but I plan on riding this feeling as long as I can through humility and simplicity and sharing this feeling with those around me. I am so grateful for this time of year and for those who have given to my family. i am proud to call myself a Richmonder and a Virginian. I have so much to look forward to this year and in the future and it turns out that the simplest of Christmases may actually turn out to be the best. Given how the Savior came into this world, it kind of makes since. Happy Holidays, readers, and may you too feel this blessed!
Geoff Tubbs of Richmond
Dec. 18, 2008 at 06:26 PM
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